The Purpose….

Posted in Uncategorized on April 24, 2009 by healmysoul4ever

Hello people…. its been sooo bloody long that i last blogged… Am in LP now.. haha ok excuses…

I would like to share about my experience during my last 3 days in the field with my new company. I was in control.
 
I found new meanings why i am doing and committed to this job with the arm forces, its to really make a difference in people’s life. Overall, to keep our country safe.
 
My encounter with my men was really impactful throughout the whole outfield.
 
One of my platoons (total of 5 x 3 men detachment) was on a training to setup their respective weapons within a given time frame of 8 mins. I was supposed to be an observer due to the fact that i’m new to the company. The 1st try saw one of the detachment (Det A) unable to meet the timing and resulted the entire platoon to fail the setup. After another 2 – 3 tries, it was again the same Det A that failed to meet the timing. Obviously i saw things were not working out and i stood up and stop the entire training. I gathered the entire platoon and i literally shouted at Det A. My feedback to them, No communication, No support, No sense of urgency and No Commitment! The whole platoon was shocked into silence with my loud ‘roar’. I told Det A that they were wasting our time and they were unwilling to make a shift to change even though they realised that they will never meet the timing. I made them realised the implication they will eventually cause to the entire platoon or even the mission. After given the “turbulance” to Det A, i went on questioning the synergy of the entire platoon. I challenged them on their commitment to one another as a platoon and how they failed to support eachother eventhough they knew Det A was not doing well. I sensed there was a lack of having a common goal and a common vision. No one seems to care of bother about what others were doing, they were just going through by motion and they were all Selfish! At that very moment, i got them really thinking and on a lighter mood they must be thinking that ‘this officer’ infront of them is about to give them hell in time to come. (haha). After awhile, i asked the other detachments who met the timing to share with Det A what went well for them and on top of that i got the rest of the platoon to work on their goals in accomplishing the training on time as a platoon. I shared with them their purpose in doing national service and how they can really benefit from it. Knowing the importance of keeping our country safe and sound, i have created a common vision for them. 15 mins later, we went on with the training and Det A met the timing, the whole platoon met the timing. Det A won and same goes for the whole platoon! The best part was that the whole platoon celebrated for achieving the timings and for once i saw a powerful strength of unity in them. I knew i have made a difference in their life and i am committed to do bigger than that.
 
My new guys are coming in during end May and i am committed to create a honest, trusting and determine force with a common goal of having everyone of them to Win during their NS life and eventually to Win while in the outside world!
LP 81 is the key to my being now, its the fact that we live on a common vision: “A Lively world of Love, Courage and Possibilities” that makes us who we are now.
 
LP81 is a life time journey, we will always be ONE, always..
 
Continue to support eachother, work on our DOEs, have everyone to win by the end of 3rd weekend!
 
Its just like meeting the timings for the training, cos at the end of 3rd weekend, WE ARE CELEBRATING! YES! TO CELEBRATE OUR VICTORY!

A Dog’s Life….

Posted in Uncategorized on March 6, 2009 by healmysoul4ever

Its been like almost an entire month that i last blogged….

Its time to update….

I had just completed my AW Advance Course 2 weeks ago…. It was an amazing journey…

I am living up to my Contract: “I’m a Honest, Loving and Confident Man”

The people i met in the advance course were really authentic and i am committed to make a difference in their life…

They surprised me and celebrated my 27th Birthday on the 24th of Feb…. I was really touched….

Its been like sooo long i actually had a cake on my birthday… Thank you guys! Love you all!

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My Beloved Friends!

After completing my Advance, I went back to my hectic work and studies….

3 x Assignments to be completed within 7 days… (Crazy and i regret i did not plan my time well)

Whole week have to deal with the Army IKC2 open house thingy.. Alot work and very little time… Was really Drained and Stressed….

My Boss commented about my working attitude lately and i got to find out i’m not performing up to my standard. Made me more down….

Have to cope with some relationship problem with a few female friends…. (I will save the details, but am kinda disturbed and sad)

I supposed to feel alive after my advance, but i was down and drowning…

LP81 been in my mind… But i wasn’t sure whether i should do it.. cos of all the above mentioned factors…

Work, Studies, Family, Love and Me…. (How???)

Just 4 days ago after i handed up all my assignments  i finally managed to grab some good rest….

Its only this week i finally can get my mind straight and clear….

Am i doing LP???

After the conversation with Verdy, Caroline, Sam and Daniel…. I finally decided to say YES to LP81…

LP 81… A question for me… “What results i want to Achieve?” (Time will tell)

Got to catch a movie with Verdy,

Marley and Me… It was really a great movie about man’s best friend… Yes “DOG”

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Towards the end of the movie,  there was this saying about Dogs and it really touched me…

“Dogs don’t choose you because of the materials (cars, house, money, luxury life) you have or own, all they need is LOVE from you and they will give you back the LOVE you need”

Its true, and i believe human kinds have to constantly remind themselves that in life, its not all about the appearance and the materials. Its about the simplest thing a person can give or offer… Its call “LOVE”..

Well, have a great weekend ahead people!

Going for my 1st Weekend for LP81 later! 

Love you all!

Drained….

Posted in Uncategorized on February 13, 2009 by healmysoul4ever

I am tired…

Drained from my work, studies and love…

‘Am sorry for being cold… you are a nice person’

‘Am sad when i am the only one trying to make things happen…. distance is not a problem…’

‘Am happy that i am important to you…. able to see you smile is wonderful’

Valentine Day is tomorrow….

Am alone this year…

Or am i? Yes i am..

I am tired…

Happy Advance Valentine Day people…

The Path to Love….

Posted in Uncategorized on February 8, 2009 by healmysoul4ever

Have you realised that Life is a Path?

Do you know Life requires Love?

And do you know in Life there is a path to Love?

Love can heal.
Love can renew.
Love can make us safe.
Love can inspire us with its power.

Everything love is meant to do is possible. Knowing this, however, has only made the gap between love and non-love more painful.

When you find your path, you will also find your love story. People today are consumed by doubts about their relationships: Have I found the right partner? Am I being true to myself? Have I given the best part of myself away?

The path to love, however, is never about externals. However good or bad you feel about your relationship, the person you are with at this moment is the “right” person, because he or she is a mirror of who you are inside.

Therefore the path to love isn’t a choice, for all of us must find out who we are. This is our spiritual destiny. The path can be postponed; you can lose faith in it or even despair that love exists at all. None of that is permanent; only the path is. Doubt reflects the ego, which is bound in time and space. The ultimate promise on the path to love is that you will walk in the light of a truth extending beyond any truth your mind presently knows.

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The whole of last week was rather crazy….

Sometimes, you will find love in the least expected way…..(Am not saying i have found a new love)

I chose my path to love for now….

Caught a movie with Verdy and Lynn last night, “Look For a Star” by Andy Lau and Shu Qi.

The show was nice and heartwarming. Again the show is about falling with someone in the least expected way…

There was this quote in the movie that made an impact in me…

“人生在世,难得糊涂”

And i believed that “爱是要争取的!”

Think about it… =)

Met up with Olivia.

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Have a great Sunday.. Am on Duty in Camp!

L.O.V.E

Posted in Uncategorized on February 4, 2009 by healmysoul4ever

Met up with B on monday evening, we had a really good chat..

I confessed to her how i really feel for her… And i told her that i clearly understand that we are different….

I told her i really treasure our friendship and having her as a true friend is more than anything i could ask for…..

I do not wish to create a barrier btw us because of my insensitive approach….

She appreciated my honesty by telling her about my feelings…..

She started to share with me her current personal life and i felt really good….

The conversation was authentic and sincere…

I told her i’ll be her support in finding her happiness and we really created an authentic and loving friendship…

Loving someone does not mean i have to be with her….

Love is unconditioned…

And i finally experienced it….

Loving Her is By Respecting Her….

Posted in Uncategorized on January 28, 2009 by healmysoul4ever

I’m hurt…

My intention has unknowingly failed me…

Though there isn’t any reciprocation, i should not be sad…. Cos Love supposed to be unconditioned

If you are telling me that i should stop wasting my time…. Again, since when Love can be measured by time?

Someone shared with me that I should not be selfish…

And if i really Love her, Respect her in every ways…. 

There is a qoute: “Every human being, of whatever origin, of whatever station, deserves respect. We must each respect others even as we respect ourselves.”

With respect, Love will be presence and Happiness will be created…

If i really Love her, respect her decision….

Sunday evening.. What do i want to create? An Authentic Loving Friendship with her…

Love = Happiness

Posted in Uncategorized on January 20, 2009 by healmysoul4ever

Do you agree with the following quote? I do. =)

“Love is always bestowed as a gift – freely, willingly, & without expectation. We don’t love to be loved; we love to love!”

Love is really amazing…

Love could be from your Parents, Spouse, Girl/ Boyfriend, Colleauges, Boss and Friends….

Why people love? The equation is simple Love = Happiness… Another saying will be…

“The pursuit of happiness is by loving”

Imagine this, how do you feel when someone you truely love is happy? To me i will feel happy as well and why is it so? Its because of  “Love”. 

I felt “Loved” when my close friends gave me a helping hand when i’m in trouble… They expect nothing much in-return but wanting to see me back alive again…. Thanks again…

I Love my Family….. They deserves better and i will make it happen! 

Love is the only reason why human beings should stay alive…

Have a great day ahead people!

CHeers

15th Jan 2009

Posted in Uncategorized on January 15, 2009 by healmysoul4ever

Am currently at East Coast Park Star Buck Cafe (Big Splash’s Outlet)….

My appointment is @ 830pm but i am early….

As far as i know, my life is offically “owned” by 2 buddies of mine… JK & Verdy…

Thanks again for the 2nd chance…. I will tresure it till death and will make extrodinary results out of it…

2009 has been amazing for me soo far, started off my salsa and drumming lessons to prove my actions of achieving my personal goals for this year…

Whats more amusing, i recieved my study schedule for this semester.. All my modules did not clashes with my two lessons… Here’s the plan:

Monday:   Drumming
Tuesday:  Salsa
Wednesday: (Free)
Thursday: SIM
Friday: SIM

I believe 2009 will definitely be a smashing year for me!

I’m waiting for someone for dinner, she is someone who really caught my attention for the past 1 month plus….

She is amazing, I’m in serious Love….. Really glad to have a dinner date with her… Really enjoy spending time with her… Though it could be a one sided thingy… But bottomline, i giving my 100%…

Life will definitely be soo much better to have her….. Pray for me…

Have a great evening people!

Cheers

Building on the success of 2009….

Posted in Uncategorized on January 8, 2009 by healmysoul4ever

Read Verdy’s blog  and kinda inspired by him (Damn u had a hell lot of fun for the past 24 years.. haha)

I started off my 2009 with a blast!

Took up my 1st ever dance class on tuesday, SALSA!!!  Totally fall in love with it! Been practising the moves in my office, room and etc.. haha

Next Monday, i will be learning DRUMMING!!! Another part of my long term goal (To be able to play for band).. Time to Rock the house down!!! haha

My AW basic buddy, Peng, will be teaching me how to cook next month and i simply can’t wait to get myself ‘dirty’ in the kitchen.. Yummy Yummy! Remember the tv cooking star “Fang Tai”, i’m potentially the next big thing in cooking “Fang Ge”… in my dreams ofcourse!

May be joining a few regulars to pick up Golf next month as well… We’ll see how it goes… My Uni semester starting soon.. and my number of free hours per week looks rather little… Jialat.. haha

Inawhile i be meeting someone regards to my potential “passive income” and i have developed a few possible solution in earning more. I have just came out a project for myself, its a long term goal and its called ’Project B’. Hopefully by the end of 2009, i will be able to save up atleast 50k.

‘Project B’ will eventually fulfill many of my important goals in life. I want to give my mom and the rest of my family members the best!  My intention is clear and focus, i am committed to it and i will make it happen.

I know for the past 9 months, i have met up alot of ladies and i have not been truely committed to open up to any possible relationship… But for once, i have really fallen for someone who is older than me… The feeling is as authentic as what i have experienced 13 years ago.. The feeling of “falling in love for the first time”.. I will give my 100% and committed to try my best to win her heart… The outcome be it good or bad… Atleast i’m able to answer myself… I’m am really serious about her, and i really willing to give her all the love, care and attention, which she truely deserves….

2009 will be the year of revolution for ME!

Love you all people!

2009 New Year Resolution!

Posted in Uncategorized on January 2, 2009 by healmysoul4ever

Ok this is what i want to accomplish in 2009!

  1. Build a loving, Authentic and Open Relationship with my Mom
  2. Learn How to Cook
  3. Learn Drumming
  4. Learn Dancing (Salsa)
  5. Earn Extra Passive Incomes
  6. Save as Much as possible
  7. Learn Golfing
  8. To do well in my studies
  9. To perform extremely well in my work
  10. To work hard for my love life!
  11. Marathon (Verdy’s Request, haha)

Yap, this entry basically sums up my resolution for 2009, which i feel its kinda alot… But as long I’m COMMITTED to them i will achieve wonders! Give my 100% and have faith in myself!

Happy New Year World! Life Rocks!